- Use a mild relaxer that you will know will under process your hair.
- Add oils or conditioner to the relaxer (applicable to both lye and no-lye relaxers) to weaken it.
- For no-lye relaxers: reduce the amount of activator you add, thereby weakening the relaxer’s strength.
- Apply vaseline/petroleum jelly to new growth.
- Limit the time relaxer is on your hair. For example, if the instructions indicate that the relaxer should be left on for 15 minutes, shorten that time.
How I texlax my hair:
- I use a relaxer that without aid, doesn’t relax my hair bone straight. Specially: Organic Root Stimulator Relaxer (lye) in normal strength. To quickly answer a "Picking Your Brain" submission, I prefer lye formula because no-lye left my hair limp. I've used lye relaxers for years and my hair prefers them.
- I don’t smooth a lot and limit application and smoothing to 11 minutes. I relax my hair in halves to make the process easier.
- Vaseline on my new growth — I actually stumbled across this method by accident. When I self-relax my hair, I use Vaseline/regular petroleum jelly to base my scalp and I am very heavy handed so I get Vaseline all over my new growth. I realized that coating my new growth with the vaseline was contributing to my texlaxed results because it created a barrier between my hair and relaxer, weakening the relaxers straightening effects.
How to determine what level of “texlaxed-ness” you desire (before your actually touch-up/relaxer):
- Take a few shed strands of hair, because I don’t want you pulling out strands that are perfect content to stay connected to your scalp lol, and using any of the methods above, apply relaxer to the new growth on the strands. Play around with how long you leave the relaxer on the hair, smoothing, technique, etc. until you achieve your desired results.
If you're going to a salon and want to achieve texlaxed results:
- If you bring your own relaxer each time you go, add oil and/or conditioner to the relaxer you bring with you.
- If you use the relaxer that is provided by the stylist, coat your hair with oil, conditioner, and/or petroleum jelly before your appointment.
- Request that the stylist shorten the application and smoothing time. Hey, it's your money and your hair, don't be afraid to request just what you want.
If you want to transition to texlaxed:
- If you already relax your hair, for your next touch up, simply try one of the methods above, as well as determine beforehand how telaxed you'd like your hair to be.
- If you're natural and want to being chemically process your hair and achieve texlaxed results:
- The week before: wash and condition your hair as normal and I also suggest doing a protein treatment to strengthen your hair for your upcoming relaxer.
- During the week: avoid scratching and irritating your scalp.
- The day of your relaxer:
- If you've never self-relaxed your hair before, I'd suggest going to a stylist that you've researched and/or watched in action. It's always good to know whose seat you're going to be sitting in because all stylists are not created equal.
- If you used to self-relax before you transitioned to natural and feel comfortable self-relaxing again, use one of the methods mentioned above.
- Don't forget to use the method above to determine what level of "texlaxed-ness" you'd like before you take the plunge.
Do you feel that the use of a relaxer prohibits your hair in anyway? Not at all. If I want to rock big hair, I air dry or do a braid out (but truthfully I haven't done a braid out in months!). If I want straight hair and/or curls, I can either flat iron or roller set it.
Would you suggest texlaxing for someone who wants to go natural, but is addicted to straightened hair? That depends on why the individual want to go natural. If they want to go natural to achieve thicker hair but want to potentially avoid using direct heat frequently to achieve straight styles, then yes I’d suggest texlaxing.
Aside from that, I think going natural is a personal decision that I try not to give suggestions for to against. If someone wants to go natural, go for it! Pursue, obtain, and care for the hair YOU want for whatever reasons that motivate you.
I hope this was helpful!